Infantile emotional education
Your son needs a good guide, a model to follow, some values to have presents and some bases where to lean of life in the trip.
Contribute security to him so that he foments his self-esteem and he harnesses his resources before any harassment of bullying or problem that appears to him.
If you accompany to him in the route and you lie down a hand to him can develop better its abilities, to learn to being more responsible, taking care to solve its problems and to fulfill the goals that set out.
Turn you into its personal coach
Every day is important, because it offers the opportunity to us to pass tests and to learn.
Without assuming nothing by all means beforehand, your son is going to you to surprise with his changes.
He observes with discretion to be able to see his abilities and chooses in which he can improve.
Teach the route to him of the elections that takes, so that it becomes more conscious of the process and accepts the tools that you propose to him.
When the objectives are clear
Hands to the work!
It draws a map with the points to follow to make decisions and to take the first step in the line of exit.
It accompanies to your son in the process to give the force him necessary and to surpass the first obstacles and troubles of the way.
It summons a stop at the suitable moment to value the course of the objective or noticeable objectives.
We go well? If, ahead!
Not absolutely. Taking new decisions, a new course to follow.
The children must experiment, they must learn to fail and the adventure of its development must be guided and not be dictated.
By where we began
All the phases of life of a boy are important: social education, relations, hygienic habits, feeding.
We are going to study which can be improved and to act consequently.
Help to maintain serenity him at the problematic moments: examinations, conflicts, frustrations, fear¦
Sincere and explain yourself to them how you have made your own decisions and solved your problems.
If you maintain to the boy in a bubble, you isolate it of the society, is important that it discovers that the diversity exists so that the tolerance nourishes it of new ways to live and to see the life.
When one is frustrated, the words of spirit through active listening and a hug as support, are key so that it can change the attention center.
The fear is sudden and supposes an obstacle in the way of the learning. For that reason when a boy surpasses it, although the fear is very small before your eyes, obtaining it is the most important feat of the moment.
With the practice of yoga, the meditation and the techniques of relaxation you can learn together to breathe correctly to be able to calm the mind.
Animate to him to continue advancing
To make friendly and to maintain the friendships during the time foment the interaction to learn to be related, to tolerate to the others and to open themselves to the diversity.
It takes care of and it supports the people, as much as you would like that they did it to you. You do not leave nobody does to you what you never would do.
The routines and the habits
It finds more agreed the daily routine that to his age so that it is implied in the hygienic order, cleaning and habits without pressing to him. If one feels forced, by your orders or the tone of voice that you use, will flee or they refused to realise them.
They are our mirror. It breaks the circuit of bad mood with a smile.
To learn to feed itself
To go to the purchase, search prescriptions and to taste healthful foods teach to the boy to take care of its organism, to be conscious and to evaluate the products that the Earth offers to us.
Teach the true nutrition to him, that tries and chooses without letting itself take by showy packages and commercials.
Moments of relaxation
Our body and our mind need hours relaxation to have major vitality.
To speak on the things that have happened in the day, to listen kindly and to help to that it thinks to him about which want to do in future, are a way to meditate focusing in the goals that are wanted to fulfill.
The figure of father/responsible mother worried about its son, renews to the one of occupied to guide giving it the best thing of one same one, for this the patience and the time that is dedicated to him is fundamental.
The children are the future, must express themselves now with their open and clear minds.
You are his maximum support!